Understanding eating disorders

Eating disorders are serious, biologically-influenced mental illnesses. They are not a choice, a phase, or vanity. They affect people of every gender, age, background, and body size, and they are treatable. With the right support, full recovery is possible.

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A note before you read. This page describes eating disorders, their signs, and their effects in general terms. If reading about this feels difficult, it is okay to pause. Support is here whenever you are ready.

If you need help right now, you do not have to wait. If you are in immediate danger, call 911. For urgent support and crisis lines, see crisis and urgent help.

Real illnesses, with real treatment

Eating disorders are complex mental illnesses with physical effects. They are shaped by biological, psychological, and social factors, and they involve serious disturbances in a person's thoughts, feelings, and behaviours around food, eating, and the body.

They are not about vanity, willpower, or a lack of discipline, and they are not a lifestyle choice or a passing phase. They are serious, biologically-influenced illnesses that can affect nearly every part of the body. Left untreated, they can become life-threatening. With the right care, they are also very treatable.

It also helps to name a distinction. Disordered eating describes thoughts, attitudes, and behaviours around food, eating, and body image that interfere with daily life. It may not meet the full criteria for a diagnosed eating disorder, but it is still serious and still worth addressing. You do not need a diagnosis, or to be "sick enough," to deserve support.

Recovery is real. Many people recover fully, and getting the right help early makes a lasting difference.

There is more than one form

Eating disorders take several forms, and many people's experiences do not fit neatly into a single category. All of them are real and serious, and all of them deserve care. Diagnoses are made by qualified professionals.

Anorexia nervosa

Anorexia nervosa is a life-threatening mental illness characterized by behaviours that interfere with maintaining an adequate weight. It usually involves persistent restrictive eating, a powerful fear of gaining weight or becoming fat, and a distorted perception of one's own body. Many people also have little awareness of how serious the illness has become.

An array of biological, genetic, social, and psychological factors influence its onset. Anorexia is not limited to any one gender, age, or body size, and many people appear well on the outside while hiding the severity of their illness. Early intervention significantly improves outcomes.

Bulimia nervosa

Bulimia nervosa is a life-threatening mental illness characterized by periods of food restriction followed by binge eating, with recurrent compensating behaviours such as purging or further restriction.

People living with bulimia are often deeply ashamed and work hard to hide these behaviours. They may be at a body weight that others read as typical, which is one reason the illness is so often invisible. Compensating behaviours such as purging carry serious physical risks, including dehydration, damage to the mouth and esophagus, and imbalances in the body's minerals and salts. It responds well to treatment and support.

Binge eating disorder

Binge eating disorder is a mental illness that can seriously affect both psychological and physical health. It is characterized by recurrent episodes of eating large quantities of food, followed by shame, distress, or guilt.

It is different from ordinary overeating, which most people do on occasion. Binge eating is less common and is marked by real psychological distress and a sense of loss of control. It is not about willpower or discipline, and unlike bulimia it does not involve regular compensating behaviours. It affects people of all body sizes and is often under-recognised. Treatment exists and it works.

ARFID (Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder)

ARFID is characterized by severe limitations in the amount and/or the types of food a person consumes. Importantly, and unlike anorexia nervosa, ARFID does not involve distress about body shape or size, or a fear of becoming fat. It can still severely compromise growth, development, and overall health.

ARFID often begins in infancy or childhood and may be linked to sensitivities to the texture, colour, or smell of food, or to a frightening food-related experience such as choking. It is not the same as ordinary picky eating.

ARFID is a distinct diagnosis. The absence of body-image concern does not make it any less real or less serious.
OSFED (Other Specified Feeding or Eating Disorder)

OSFED refers to atypical presentations of anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, binge eating disorder, and other eating disorders. A person may meet many, but not all, of the criteria for another diagnosis.

These presentations are equally serious and as potentially life-threatening as the more typical ones. Examples include atypical anorexia, in which all features are present except that body weight is not below the expected level; sub-threshold bulimia or binge eating disorder, where episodes occur less often than the diagnostic threshold; night eating syndrome; and purging disorder. Many people are first diagnosed with OSFED, and the designation never diminishes the harm of the illness or the need for treatment.

Signals, not a checklist

The signs below are ways an eating disorder can show up in yourself or someone you care about. They are signals worth paying attention to, not a diagnostic checklist. Signs vary from person to person, and no one needs to show all of them to be struggling. If you are concerned, the right response is to reach out for support.

Emotional

  • Intense preoccupation with food, eating, weight, or body shape
  • Guilt, anxiety, or shame around eating
  • Irritability, low mood, or feelings of hopelessness
  • Rigid, all-or-nothing thinking or perfectionism
  • Self-disgust or distress after eating

Physical

  • Weight changes, or a lack of expected growth in children
  • Feeling cold often, dizziness, or fainting
  • Fatigue and difficulty with everyday activities
  • Digestive complaints and signs of dehydration
  • Dental changes, swelling near the jaw, or calluses on the knuckles

Behavioural

  • Skipping meals or making excuses not to eat
  • Eating alone or in secret, or hiding and hoarding food
  • Rituals around food, or eating very quickly or past fullness
  • Excessive exercise, or signs of purging after meals
  • Withdrawing from friends, family, and social situations involving food

Setting the record straight

Misconceptions about eating disorders keep people from being taken seriously and from getting help. Here are some of the most common ones, and what is actually true.

Myth

You can tell whether someone has an eating disorder by looking at them.

Fact

You cannot tell just by looking. People of all body types and sizes experience eating disorders, and many people who are seriously ill appear healthy.

Myth

Eating disorders only affect young, thin women.

Fact

Eating disorders affect people of all genders, ages, races and ethnicities, body shapes and weights, sexual orientations, abilities, and socioeconomic backgrounds.

Myth

Eating disorders are a choice, a phase, or about vanity.

Fact

They are serious, biologically-influenced mental illnesses. Genes and environment both play a role, and no one chooses to have one.

Myth

Families are to blame for a person's eating disorder.

Fact

Families are not to blame, and they can be among the best allies a person and their care team have in recovery.

Myth

"Atypical" or OSFED presentations are less serious.

Fact

OSFED and other atypical presentations are equally serious and as potentially life-threatening as the more typical ones.

Myth

Eating disorders are not really that dangerous.

Fact

Eating disorders carry an increased risk of both suicide and medical complications. They are health crises that deserve timely, compassionate care.

This framing draws on the Academy for Eating Disorders' "Nine Truths About Eating Disorders," which affirms that eating disorders are serious biologically influenced illnesses, that families are not to blame, and that full recovery is possible, with early detection and intervention being important.

Reaching out early is powerful

You do not need a formal diagnosis, and you do not need to be "sick enough," before asking for support. Reaching out early leads to better outcomes, and the first step can be a simple conversation.

It may be time to reach out when:

  • thoughts about food, eating, or the body begin to interfere with everyday life and the things you care about
  • eating becomes secretive or wrapped in shame
  • these struggles show up alongside anxiety, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, or a history of trauma

A good place to begin is with a primary care provider, such as a family doctor, nurse practitioner, or a walk-in clinic, who can assess what is happening and connect you with specialised care. You are also welcome to reach out to us directly.

  1. You reach out

    A call, an email, or a conversation with a family doctor. No diagnosis needed.

  2. We listen

    Without judgment, and without needing you to be "sick enough".

  3. We find the next step

    Support that fits your situation, here in Newfoundland and Labrador.

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Information on this page is adapted from the National Eating Disorder Information Centre (NEDIC), Canada's authoritative source on eating disorders, at nedic.ca, with myth-and-fact framing informed by the Academy for Eating Disorders. It is provided for general education and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.